My Nokia and o2 Pay as you Go.

I have purchased a new mobile phone. It's the Nokia 6230i. I am on pay as you go with O2.
It's a little smasher. It takes pics, has radio with a really good reception. Has a bigger memory than me. lol Also does video.
Now, as you may know, I am not good with gadgets. So, I am finding it impossible to send pics to another phone. I can do it ok with Bluetooth. Got that sussed. But I want to send granddaughter pics and some music.
I HAVE looked at the destruction book. Makes no sense to me though. I find these books only make sense when I know what I am doing.
I was getting on quite well and then granddaughter went home....................
Any plain talking, idiot type instructions welcome. Granddaughter has the same phone as me. Well, you have to spoil them now and then don't you?

Mobile Phone.o2

Thank you o2 for your help in setting up my mobile phone.
I can now send photos to people. In fact, I have sucessfully sent a photo of a skeleton, I took it at work the other day. It posed nicely for me. It had a big smile too. Shame it was behind horizontal blinds, made it look as if was in prison.
It is made of plastic......I think.
He/she has been standing there for years.
Also included a pic of the emergency helicopter that was taking off from the hospital. Honest, I hadn't started work when I took these!